Tuesday, February 8, 2011

The RSVP {FYI}

Make responding to your wedding invitations easy and convenient for your guests: give them more than one way to RSVP!
On the response cards enclosed with the invitations, I printed at the bottom:
You may also reply via:
E-mail: ninnybride at yahoo
Telephone: I put my number here, but you may employ someone organized and helpful from your wedding party to take messages
Wedding Website: My awesome wedding website, hosted for free by TheKnot.com, allows guests to RSVP, saving you the time of updating your guest list!
My guests very much appreciate having more than one way to respond; the majority mailed in their response cards, but the flexibility of just going to the website, or simply e-mailing or calling me made it easy for everyone else, and easier for me; I don't have to make calls and track down any unanswered invites!

Besitos,
Vanessa

Monday, January 10, 2011

For the Love of Lockets

Ever since I was a little Ninny, I loved lockets. There is something so secretive and magical about a beautiful piece of jewelry, with tiny pictures of loved ones hidden within.
I think lockets are the perfect wedding jewelry; keep a picture of you and your Ninnygroom by your heart during your special day. Brass is one of my favourite metals; it has a beautiful, antique feel.
Hope this jewelry post was inspiring and pretty. Happy Monday!

Besitos,
Vanessa

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

DIY: Wedding Invitations

Decided to do-it-yourself (DIY) for your wedding invitations? Here is a list of some online resources for stationary supplies, software, printers and templates.

My Gatsby This is the site I used for my wedding invitations! They have both blank stationary sets you can purchase to print on yourself, and prefab-ed templates that you can customize online and have them print (the option I chose). *Helpful hint: Click on Discount Wedding Invitations (under Wedding Invitations) to find beautiful stationary for superlow prices, like the Jocelyn Wedding Invitations, which start as low as 92 cents a piece. 80-110 lb. stock.

A Printable Press I cannot say enough nice things about their designs. Browse all of their beautiful suites, then customize and purchase! All stationery comes as a PDF so you can print as many as you want! It doesn't matter if you need 50 or 200, it's all the same price.

The Aerialist Press They are hands-down the most affordable (and in my opinion, the most beautiful) letterpress stationers around. And thier customer service is pristine; double points to them.

Michael's The craft-store giant has a really nice wedding section, with lots of different wedding stationary kits, from brands like Martha Stewart Weddings, Brides and Anna Griffin. *Helpful hint: Create an account and receive coupons for up to 50% off to help you shop. Michael's also accepts competitor's coupons, so bring your coupons from A.C. Moore Jo-Ann Fabrics.

Need more suggestions? Let me know and I'll post some more!

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

For Your Ninnygroom: Ties

While perusing Etsy, I found the most incredible shop: the Cyberoptix Tie Lab.

All ties are silkscreened by hand with great, original artwork; I'm in love.

They have a great assortment of colours, styles and materials, all at great prices (ties start at $30). Buying matching ties for your groom and groomsmen? Cyberoptix offers matching tie sets for any number in your party.

I love finding shops and pieces like this; shopping for suits could be less of a chore for the low-maintenance groom with great pieces like these.

Need more Etsy wedding shopping options? Check out my Etsy favourites in the right column!

Monday, December 20, 2010

Wedding Stationary Basics

Wedding stationary can get pretty expensive; well over $600 is about the average for just the invites and reply cards (for about 150 invites). Invitations can run anywhere from $1 (if you make them yourself) to $10 (hand-engraved lettering on 120 lb. cardstock). Costs start to really add up depending on wat you want to include in the invitation package. Here is a full list of items you can (but don't have to) include:

*Invitations (sometimes preceeded by a Save the Date card)
*RSVP card and envelope
*Reception cards (if reception is held at a different site than the ceremony)
*Direction cards
*Accommodation cards (for out of town guests or destination wedding)
*Seating cards (indicating the guest's table)
*Placecards (indicating guest's seat at specific table)
*Menu cards
*Wedding Programs

My recommendations:
-Order invitations and RSVP cards only, and create a wedding website to direct guests to for every minute detail they need. Make another insert with the site address and all the features they can find there (I'll address wedding websites in the next posting).
-Create an RSVP postcard instead of card and envelope; this will make the invitation package weight lighter (thus making the postage less money), and cost you less in postage (postcard postage is currently only 28 cents).

Here is a list of printing methods for invitations, from most expensive to budget:

Engraving A metal die is cut with lettering and applied against paper, resulting in raised lettering and an indented back surface. This method can be hand or machine engraved.
Letterpress Letters are pressed deep into the paper, giving the invitations a beautiful texture.
Thermography Resin powder is added to wet ink and heated to form raised lettering; it's a way cheper alternative to engraving.
Lithography The inked image is transferred (or "offset") from a plate to a rubber blanket, then to the printing surface. The finish is completely flat.
Home Printer The least expensive way to go. Laser or inkjet printers only print flat (no raised letters).

I shopped around for quite a while, looking at different printers and stationers (both online and in person) to find the best priced services for each printing method. Then I decided what would be the nicest way to go while staying within my budget. What you decide to spend is completely up to you; just make sure you're comfortable with how much (or how little) you're spending, and that you're happy with what your invitations look like. After much deliberation, I went with thermographic invitations from a well-known online stationer.

My savings were phenominal (around $275 for 100 invitations & envelopes, RSVP cards & envelopes, and wedding website info cards), and they look great; but remember, you get what you pay for: the paper weight is pretty light (around only 100lbs.), so they feel just a little flimsy. But they look great, and the weight difference is negligible to anyone who doesn't know much about papers (i.e., most people). Anyway, the money I saved on the stationary can go to the things I really want (music, wine and food).

Thanks for reading, I hope this was a helpful intro to wedding stationary!
Have more wedding planning questions? Email me! ninnybride@yahoo.com

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Save the Dates {and money}

We {finally} mailed our Save the Date announcements this week! After compiling our large family lists, Ninnygroom and I sat down and started addressing our cards. We chose to send postcards; they're less expensive to purchase, and the postage for postcards is much cheaper (28¢).


Lots of online stationary sites have great postcard designs that can be customized to match your wedding theme. We used Vistaprint to create our postcards. They have lots of beautiful templates (they have a "Save the Dates" collection as well), and really great offers and promotional prices. Helpful hint: sign up for an account, and Vistaprint will start sending you promo offers via email; most of them will offer you 100 free postcards, shipping and more!

So here's the breakdown:
100 postcards: free
250 cards: $19.99
Image upload: $4.99/image (I only used one)
Backside text (grayscale): free
Coloured backside: $19.99
Shipping: free ($12.99 standard)
Tax: $4.78

My final cost: $63.74


For 250 Save the Date postcards, we were happy to spend under $75. But beware of buying way more than you may need; we thought we were sending out 155 postcards, which was why we purchased the next quantity up from 100, but after compiling our lists, we only needed the 100. Lesson: revise your guest list before purchasing anything in quantities, no matter how cheap!

But we did make out really well, and we love our Save the Dates. Hope this was helpful, and happy wedding planning!

Besitos,
Vanessa

Friday, June 11, 2010

Breakfast at Tiffany's

In my search of breakfast reception inspiration, I found this beautiful wedding reception, inspired by one of my favourite movies, Breakfast at Tiffany's.

Besides the fact that I absolutely adore all things Audrey, these breakfast-inspired hors d'oeuvres are absolutely wonderful! I'm swimming in ideas:


{miniature blueberry pancakes}


Yes, the caterer made teeny square butter pats for each stack.


{scrambled eggs in bacon cups}



{smoked salmon & cream cheese with dill on mini bagel}


Everything is always better in miniature. Always.


{petite french toast}


I am just tickled by the idea of offering a breakfast-themed cocktail hour; to think, I was going to skip that portion of the reception all together! I really like this one:


{caviar & crème fraîche on parmersan bread-spoon, served with a shot of vodka}


Perhaps a bit too early in the morning for this one for my wedding, but fabuloso none the less.


I think I'm more excited about offering a coffee & tea bar than I am about the alcoholic libations!


{A selection of cheeses with chutney, fig jam, crostini, grapes, crackers, peaches, and figs}


There are so many great local farms in NY and PA to create a cheese table with, we won't know where to start...


{little pink-frosted doughnuts, key lime tarts, and caramel-covered apples, among other good things}


My one must-have for the reception is a dessert table; I'd really like to make all the confections myself, and have a colourful, sweet selection in leiu of a wedding cake.

Here's a few more good things from this wedding, hope you've enjoyed!








{ring pillow}



{gift baskets for guests}



{tiffany's-inspired champagne bar}



{petit fours}


Besitos,
Vanessa